Condolence: So very sorry for your loss Gloria. John was a true friend and he will be deeply missed.

Condolence: I remember all the times we would wait for John to come across the mighty Ottawa River. He would dock his boat in Westmeath and the kids would check out every boat coming across. They knew from a distance if it was Uncle John. The front end of the boat would be breached as if it was going to take flight, with one hand on his head to hold down his hat, and the other on the throttle! The boat would be bouncing across the waves! Yup that’s Uncle John! He’s here! Those familiar words and picture now form a comfort. He’d arrive with an infectious smile, hug the kids, tell them to unload the boat, remind them to stay out of his tackle box, and swagger up the beach. We were always happy to see him. Even Grandma Nieman chimed in “Hey John, coffee is on”! Over to the porch we would go where we’d would begin to plan our fishing, mushroom picking and Uncle Gerry would tell tales of huge blueberries that must be picked before the bears get them! I remember one time, that is exactly what happened, I was picking berries, and John and Gerry start signalling to me to stand up and slowly walk to toward them… a cute little bear is sitting about 20 feet from me! I never moved so fast in my life! John starts laughing saying I told you to move slowly! I am lost because I can’t believe my brother is gone. It’s as if life takes more than it gives at times and I don’t know if I can handle it. I am struggling with my brother’s passing. I didn’t get a chance to say good-bye. I want to understand why John was called home now, why now when so many of us didn’t say good-bye, when so much was left unsaid. I know that if we are to call ourselves Christians, we cannot ask ourselves these questions, because to do so is to question the benevolence and divine wisdom of our Lord. We, as a family must reconcile. Today, we are lost together. Gloria, Wally, Tracy and Richard and your immediate family, I can’t even imagine your pain. We all know that John was the kind of man we all strive to be. He encouraged me, he encouraged my children to learn and to be the best they can be. He embraced life. My brother was passionate about so many things. He loved his Gloria. He was a good brother, he loved his family and even though he didn’t always say it, his actions spoke louder than words. We talked for hours on the boat about his family, his life on the road when he drove the Irish Rovers, he loved being a TTC driver, but he couldn’t wait to retire! We talked, we shared. His stories were always entertaining and amusing. His best stories were about the times he spent with his family, his children and his hunting and fishing trips with his brothers. John was a man who’s grace and talent was not just fishing and sports. He was genuine in so many ways. He loved people and he had a wonderful gift of making people feel welcome. From the first time I saw him come across the Ottawa River, step out of the boat, and hand his fishing box to the kids, and say with a smirk, “stay out of my tackle box” I saw it, a genuine interest, a good man. He knew the kids were going to go shopping in his tackle box… it was a tradition for the kids to help themselves to certain things that he planted in there just for them! We ask so much of our children at times, to learn and embrace ideals, perfection, commitment, compassion, passion, and brotherhood. John embodied those very ideals. He was a mentor to my children. I don’t think he ever gave up on anything or anyone. I remember the lessons we learned, the memories we shared, the fish we caught, the mushrooms we picked, the berries we lost, the parties we had, the laughter, the tears we cried, the hugs we shared, the campfires we sat around, the family we loved. I am left with a profound and genuine love for my brother and for my family. On the days ahead when I feel lost, I take comfort in the memories we shared and I know he is looking down on all of us with the same love and compassion. We continue on. God Bless.

Condolence: Gloria, we were saddened to hear of John's passing. We send our sincere condolences to all your family.

Condolence: My sincerest sympathy to you, Maria and your family, on your brother's death. May he rest in peace.

Condolence: John always lived everyday to the fullest and s smile was upon his face. I will miss the drive to the camp with him and walking to our watches. The soup was always on when he was in camp. My family and I will miss him. Our thoughts are with all that enjoyed his company. Ken, Anita, Gavin and Shiloh Etmanski

Condolence: My heartfelt condolences to Gloria and John's family. I always enjoyed the time I got to spend with John at the hunt camp and the few visits I had to his cottage. I'll miss the card games and many stories and most of all miss having you around every fall. Na zdrowie my friend.

Condolence: Uncle John you were always the best uncle a girl could ask for I'm going to miss you dearly when I was growing up I always was at your house or the cottage I was just thinking about you and aunt Gloria the other day and said how much I wanted to come see you guys again God got a beautiful angel up there with him now. I'm going to miss you. I will always love you uncle John xo Aunt Gloria , I'm so sorry for your loss he was just a wonderful guy and I know you will forever miss him. I love you so much and if you need anything you know me mom and dad are always here for you I love you so much xo

Condolence: Dear Gloria, Dennis and I grieve over the loss you have suffered. Our sincere condolences go out to you and your family. Both Dennis and I would like to spend some family time with you within the next couple of weeks. I am sure we have a lot of catching up. We will call you soon. Dennis and Susan

Condolence: My heart is sad to hear the passing of Uncle John. Although we only met a few times, I have very fond memories of time out at his cabin and how he taught me the proper way to catch fireflies. My dad Rick always had great stories to share of Uncle John and I know he will be greatly missed by all. My condolences go out to his wife Gloria and their children.

Condolence: Gloria, we are so sorry to hear of John's passing. We have such good memories of him telling stories in the garage and at parties at Punkinhedge - oh, the stuffed jalapeños, the TTC reminiscences, the arguments (all in good fun). Living now in eastern Ontario, we know why he so loved to spend his time at the cottage, his piece of paradise. We will be with you in spirit tomorrow, thinking of you and your family, and will raise a glass to John with Patrick and Bev Spencer. Our deepest sympathy and much love to you.

Condolence: Gloria I send my love and prayers to all your family at this time .So sorry for your loss.God bless

Condolence: It is with heartfelt sympathies that my family and I extend our condolences to all of you, Gloria,Walter, Tracy and Richard. In my early years John was a big influence to me. Always making sure that I did the right thing,in his opinion. John was larger than life to his younger brother, who would try and do anything to tag along on fishing and hunting trips, actually anywhere he was going!! First deer hunting experience with John still resonates with me. He had me climb up a tree and sit in it as he went off in search of deer. Hours later John returns to find me asleep in the tree. John let me know exactly what he thought. John being the greatest duck hunter I have ever known, according to him, managed to sneak up to a group of ducks on our river, jump up from the reeds and shot all six ducks on the water....only to realize that they were decoys belonging to the guy running for his life when the shots rang out. Tagging along to his trap shooting competitions was always exciting, as he was a very accomplished trap shooter. Always found it odd to hear everyone call him John Henry, but then realized Wieclawek was not a easy name for most to recall and pronounce. After all these years of really not having a lot of contact with John, as I moved out West to seek my own fame and fortune, I still to this day look up to my older brother with admiration for his determination to do what he wanted, not sweating the small stuff, and being his own man. My family, Sheila my wife, my daughter Dana, and my two sons Stefan and Kristian also extend their sympathies to John's family. Their memories will forever be "Uncle John at the cottage"

Condolence: What a great guy. It was my pleasure to know John and work with him, and fond memories of the tales told in Danny's garage on Friday nights over a few cold ones with Gloria's cooking. Sincere condolences go out to Gloria and family.

Condolence: You were not just my brother in law you were my friend. I will forever miss your great heart and you infectious sense of humour. There are many wonderful stories to pass along about you and they will always be told over and over again. To Gloria, Walter, Tracy and Richard and all the rest of this family my deepest condolences

Condolence: We send our condolence , to John's Family. Gloria , John will be missed. We will see you when you get home. Our love Always.

Condolence: Ever since the first time I met John at the hunt camp I thought he was a great guy. we had alot of good times and laughs and I learned so much about things. Even how to flip two eggs in a small pan...you will ve in my memeory forever John. Love you guy!

Condolence: Uncle John was a man of endless stories, He loved his friends and family and He loved me and the girls. I feel overwhelmed with the shocking and sudden news. I knew the day was coming however could never imagine it actually happening. I can only imagine the sudden shock his famiky is feeling. Aunte Gloria he rests. I'm thinking of you and remembering him for all the good he did. In proud to say I shared his heart his kindness towards all people. Every game of crib I play I will play it knowing he is beside me cheating ! Lol. Every old movie I watch I will hear about a story that will be as long as the movie ! Your voice , your face and your heart will forever remain in my mind. From tying my shocks to teaching me to fish , chsllenge of stealing your keys , you tought me to drive, you taught me patience and to slow down. Uncle John you have watched me grow up , make mistakes and you were always there to guide and forgive. My first car accident and it was you I came to. Your solution was tequillia ! Lol. It worked! I'm only his niece , a niece that had the honor of knowing and growing up with my Uncle. Oh Dear I just want to say farewell to a great Uncle. I'm sincerely will miss you Uncle John.

Condolence: So sorry for your loss. John is a solid fixture in every cottage memory.